[TheB1GDude]

Closed.

Partly because its starting to turn sour.
Partly because this is an RC forum not Dr. Phil.
Partly because to the best of my knowledge none of our members are attorneys / lawyers and therefore cannot advise on legal matters.
Partly because this is life and everyone goes through it, you either lead, follow or get out of the way and its as simple as that.

I hope you can figure out your place in life, I really do... But maybe your time would be better spent finding a forum that can offer you the support you need rather than asking questions that shouldn't be coming up on an RC forum.